Wisconsin Tiff explained that taking a six-month break from working on collaborations as a creator and concentrating on working out and dating outside the adult industry revealed to her the truth about the limitations of dating, which were greater than she expected.
The girl thought avoiding collaborations and meeting people with more ordinary lives would help her date. However, she faced the fact that she was expected to change something in her work, her independence, or her character to be in a relationship with someone.
“Actually, it was harder to date because I realized how hard it is to date someone who expects certain things from you and expects you to sacrifice your freedom and life for his sake. Men who know me and my lifestyle realize what they are dealing with. And I’d rather be myself than be treated like I should become a doormat,” she said.
From this experience, Tiff learned that shared goals and values are crucial to a successful romance and reconsidered her view of the usual expectations.
“I understand now why so many relationships end in failure because people do not share the same goals and values,” she said. “I don’t need someone who chases me because he wants to fix me and make me give up everything. If he wants to have a very traditional life, he should be ready to provide for it. Otherwise, I’d rather be myself.”
