Stephen ‘tWitch’ Boss’s Widow Allison Holker Responds to Backlash: ‘If You Decide To Read The Book, Hopefully You’ll See My Intention’

Allison Holker, widow of the late Stephen “tWitch” Boss, has addressed criticism surrounding her forthcoming memoir, “This Far: My Story of Love, Loss, and Embracing the Light.” The book, scheduled for release on February 4, delves into her personal journey, her life with Boss, and his concealed struggles prior to his death by suicide in December 2022.

In a recent interview with People Magazine, Holker revealed discovering hidden substances among Boss’s belongings after his passing, including mushrooms and pills. She also mentioned reading his journals, which suggested he endured childhood trauma. Holker stated that her intention in sharing these revelations is to help others by shedding light on mental health issues and encouraging open discussions.

However, these disclosures have sparked backlash from some of Boss’s family members and friends. Critics, including fellow dancer Courtney Platt, have accused Holker of exploiting Boss’s memory for personal gain and tarnishing his legacy. Platt alleged that Holker enforced nondisclosure agreements (NDAs) for attendees at Boss’s funeral, including his own mother, and has restricted his family’s access to their children.

In response to the criticism, Holker emphasized that her sole intention in writing the book is to share her story and aspects of her life with Boss to help others. She expressed hope that by sharing their full story, she might assist someone who sees themselves or a loved one in Boss. Holker also announced that all proceeds from the book will fund the Move with Kindness foundation, a mental health-focused organization she established in Boss’s honor.

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Supporters praise Holker for her honesty and for helping raise awareness about mental health. They say that by sharing personal struggles, she may encourage others to get help and hopefully prevent another tragedy from occurring. Holker and Boss, who tied the knot in 2013, had three kids together: Weslie, 16, Maddox, 8, and Zaia, 5. Holker has been an outspoken mental health advocate since Boss’s death, hoping to keep his memory alive while helping others cope with their own struggles.

The controversy around Holker’s memoir epitomizes the tricky balancing act that is called for in maintaining a balance between personal grief and public advocacy. Some would call her revelation a way to foster important conversations about mental health, while others an intrusion of privacy and even a disservice to the legacy of Boss. As the publication date approaches, conversations are very much alive regarding what impact her disclosures may have on those who knew and loved Stephen “tWitch” Boss.

For those interested in hearing Holker’s perspective directly, she addressed the backlash in a recent interview.