Leanne Lenee, wife of Jacksonville Jaguars two-way star Travis Hunter, has gone viral for a TikTok video laying bare the contradictory expectations placed on partners of NFL Draft prospects, concluding that the only winning move may be to skip the event entirely.
With the 2026 NFL Draft approaching, Lenee said she noticed other women posting advice videos for girlfriends, fiancées, and wives preparing to attend. Her response was a rapid-fire list of double standards that, taken together, make any course of action a losing proposition.
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“Don’t get in the camera, because if you get in the camera, like, too much, you are an attention whore, and you want this to revolve around you,” Lenee said. “But also don’t avoid the cameras and, like, sit down and try to dodge the cameras, because then you don’t care about your boyfriend or fiancé or husband.”
The contradictions continued from there. “Don’t stand up too fast, because then you’re trying to make it about you,” she said. “But also don’t stand up too slow, because then you’re bored and you don’t wanna be there.”
Timing a hug proved equally treacherous. “Don’t hug him before his mom hugs him, because then that’s wrong and his mother should hug him first,” Lenee said. “But also hug him before his mom, because then it’s gonna look like someone’s trying to tell you to go hug him, when really you’re just trying to let their mom hug them first.”
Emotions, she noted, offer no safe ground either. “Don’t cry, because if you cry, then you’re dramatic. But also, if you don’t cry, then you don’t care about him, and you’re just there for money.”
Even footwear carries consequences. “Don’t wear heels, because when your feet start to hurt and your man carries you, then you’re trying to make it about you,” she said. “But also, if you don’t wear heels, then you’re classless.”
Facial expressions fared no better. “Don’t smile too much, because if you do, then they’re gonna think that you are just there for money,” Lenee said. “But also don’t forget to smile, because if you’re not smiling, then you’re miserable and you actually hate him, and you’re just with him for money.”
Even showing support for one’s partner comes with a catch. “Cheer for your man, because that’s important. And if you don’t, then you’ll get hated,” she said. “But also, don’t share too much, because if you do, you’re doing too much and you’ll be hated.”
“And that’s all,” Lenee concluded. “So actually, just don’t go.”
Hunter, selected by Jacksonville with the second overall pick in the 2025 NFL Draft, was acquired after the Jaguars traded up to land the Colorado standout. Considered a generational “unicorn” talent, he is expected to contribute as both a wide receiver and defensive back at the professional level.
